tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113318155743153802.post7612489619417233803..comments2023-10-31T11:22:58.977-05:00Comments on pharon square: Weight DebatePharon Squarehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15601325396732346149noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113318155743153802.post-39619646611987610962013-01-31T11:20:01.787-06:002013-01-31T11:20:01.787-06:00We have the same situation over here. I lost 72 l...We have the same situation over here. I lost 72 lbs in my 20s and gained most of it back, and now I'm pregnant so there is nothing I can do about it for a few more months (although ,oddly, in pregnancy I've only gained like 12 lbs. Maybe I should just stay knocked up?). <br /><br />Anyway, Mike is a skinny tall guy who skips a meal and loses 5 lbs. He can eat whatever he wants and rarely makes healthy choices. He doesn't really exercise.<br /><br />This has caused many problems for us over the years, until we just agreed on this: I CONTROL THE FOOD. I do the grocery shopping, meal plan, and dinner cooking. He will eat pretty much anything I put in front of him, and if he doesn't, he fixes himself something else. It helps that I am a fairly good cook and enjoy it. When it comes to going out, he is always going to want pizza or chipotle, or something equally as fattening, so I've had to learn to just have certain menu items everywhere that i can go to... or to limit myself.<br /><br />I think you're doing weight watchers, which is how I lost all the weight, so trust that you are doing it the best way!<br /><br />Also, I got married DEFINITELY not at a weight I was happy about, and I still felt beautiful and confident and happy and Mike took one look at me and said 'you look absolutely beautiful,' and I ASSURE you that will all be true for you too, no matter what the scale says. JessiferSeabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02011040052433366321noreply@blogger.com